Child abuse is a major problem in our country. Child Abuse Prevention Agency estimates that 25-50% of children experience some form of abuse, this represents a pretty significant number. We know that abuse of children can lead to psychological disorders which could destabilize the community. So what are our options to deal with child abuse? In my Psych 496a-001 booklet it describes two methods to affect change for the better. The two methods are prevention and empowerment. Empowerment is defined by Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary as: to promote the self-actualization or influence of. Prevention is defined as: to keep from happening or existing. The booklet explains the downfalls and issues associated with both. Yet, we have to start somewhere take baby step until our goal is met.
Though prevention is hard to see because you already prevent the abuse from happening and sometimes we understand the parent does not want to abuse the child but they do not know they are doing it. A lot of times Social Economic Status (SES) plays a role in raising children and parents don’t know the difference between abuse and healthy discipline. Often times parents have been abused themselves and they only know what they have learned. Most of the time parents are so young when they have children they are not ready to take on the responsibility of being a parent when they themselves are still a kid. There are so many factors contributing to why child abuse exist, but I think scientifically it all boil down to our K-factor. Maybe parents to be should take time to learn about their K-factor before decided to have children, since children require high parental investment.
Prevention: Abuse often happens when parents are not prepared to deal with the challenges of raising children. Prevention of child abuse generally seems to focus on educating parents on the realities of having children. This makes it less of a surprise when children start behaving like children. Also, the parents are given tools and models to use to cope with the child and support throughout the process of childrearing. Also, prevention programs may provide resources in the form of childcare equipment and money. These things help to take away some stressors of raising children in order to make the free up the parent to deal with the stressors the child will present. Prevention can also come in the form of programs which train children to deal with and adjust to with becoming adults and the possibility of raising children. Again, preparing the young adult ahead of time can help them deal with the stressors and hopefully lead to less child abuse in coming generations.
Empowerment: In child empowerment programs, children are taught how to deal with abuse in their lives. They are given counseling and systems to prevent abuse. These things can be as simple as emphasizing the role of adults in their lives, explaining right and wrong, and giving children the language they may need in order to prevent abuse from happening to them. Children are also educated in the resources available to deal with child abuse and how to contact the appropriate authorities should child abuse happen to them.
Prevention and empowerment seem to be combined in order to make the prevention of child abuse more effective. This being the case, why is child abuse still so prevalent? There are many programs such as Educare available and it seems they are pretty widespread. Take AVANCE for example, which started out by Gloria G. Rodriguez in San Antonio, Texas, a family Support and Education Program on issues of health and education for parents and children.
I think the problem comes down to community education and funding (surprise huh?). Well, the long term affects on child abuse on the community are readily available, but seldom referenced by organizations trying to sell child abuse prevention. Obviously people are most influenced by what affects them directly, but if we can educate the citizens of our community on the big picture, maybe more support will be rendered. More emphasis needs to be placed in politics in order to prevent child abuse. If we could make it a “hot topic” during the appropriate voting period, maybe more people will care. Why is there a stronger voice for children who haven’t been born (the pro-life movement), than for those who are already here. I think another effective program could be one where the responsibility to prevent child abuse is emphasized in the children’s education programs. Maybe, if we teach children to watch out for each other, there will ultimately be less abuse. Children could be taught to pass on their education to others and to use their community (other children around them), to help them deal with the problem.